Wedding Planner Society Podcast

How Industry Partners Responded to My Credentials

Laurie Hartwell & Krisy Thomas - CWP Society Season 5 Episode 3

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In this podcast, Krisy Thomas, Senior Educator of The CWP Society, shares how a quiet moment at a venue changed everything: a sales manager noticed the credential and suddenly the conversation shifted from uncertainty to trust. That small recognition became the spark that accelerated a brand-new wedding planning business into a full-time career within a year.

We pull back the curtain on why certification doesn't just open doors—it shortens the timeline from introduction to preferred lists, nurtures stronger vendor relationships, and helps venues view you as a safe, skilled partner.

We walk through the early days of launching with just one wedding on the books and the deliberate decision to earn a recognized certification before the first event. You'll hear how that credential reframed outreach, increased email response rates, and led to venue tours and referrals without buying ads. We also break down the risk calculus venues make, why reputation protection drives their choices, and how a visible standard of training in timelines, contracts, logistics, and risk management turns "unknown" into "trusted." For vendors—photographers, florists, caterers—the shift is just as real: a certified planner signals clearer communication, smoother timelines, and calmer wedding days.

Seasoned planners aren't left out. We explore how certification validates experience, exposes hidden gaps, and upgrades systems with smarter workflows and crisis plans. The community aspect matters too—shared knowledge, accountability, and support that make better outcomes repeatable. By the end, you'll have a practical roadmap: lead with proof, show up with consistency, and position yourself as the partner who protects reputations and elevates the couple's experience.

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Welcome to the Wedding Planner Society Podcast, brought to you by the CWP Society, the world's premier wedding planner certification program and membership. I'm Chrissy Thomas, senior educator with the CWP Society, and there's a moment I think about sometimes, and it wasn't dramatic, it wasn't loud, but it was unmistakable. I was standing inside of a venue that I had been trying to build a relationship with, and the sales manager walked over with a different energy than I'd felt before. She smiled and said, Hey, I saw that you got certified. That's incredible. Let me introduce you to our events director. That was it. No big announcement, no formal celebration, just a shift. A door that had been slightly closed, slowly opening. And I realized in that moment that something had changed. Not in what I knew how to do, but in how I was being seen. Today I want to talk to you about what happened after I became certified. The response, basically. The way Venu started responding to my outreach, the way doors opened before I even had a portfolio to show, and the way I went from being a question mark to being welcomed into spaces that could have easily dismissed me as being too new or too unproven. If you have ever felt like you're working hard, but not being taken as seriously as you should be, or if you're wondering how to build credibility when you're still building your business, this episode is for you. So let me take you back to the very beginning. I launched my wedding planning business, and a couple of months later, I booked my first couple. One wedding, that was it. That was basically my entire business at that point. Here's what I knew about myself. I was organized, detail-oriented, and professional, and I cared deeply about doing things the right way. And I also knew that having one wedding on the books wasn't going to be enough to convince venues and vendors that I was someone that they should take seriously. I could already imagine those conversations. So, how long have you been doing this? Or now how many weddings have you planned? You guys know that polite skepticism. The unspoken questions about whether I knew what I was doing. And I understood why those questions would come. Venues and vendors have been burned before by people who call themselves planners but didn't understand timelines, logistics, or how to manage a wedding day with professionalism and calm. So when you're new and you don't have a track record that you can reference, you're an unknown. And unknowns carry risk. So I made a decision before I even started planning that first wedding. I enrolled in the CWP Society certification program. Here's the thing: I did it because I understood that in an industry where trust is everything, I needed something more than just my natural ability to be organized, something more than being enthusiastic and having good intentions. I needed to have additional education. I needed a credential that told venues and vendors I have been trained and I've met a professional standard. I earned my certification before that first wedding even happened. Thank God. And that decision changed everything about how my career developed. Here's what I want you to understand. The rapid growth of my wedding planning career happened because of my certification. My rapid growth was the fact that within a year of gaining my certification, I was then able to quit my nine to five banking job and become a full-time wedding planner, all because of my certification. It wasn't because I had years of wedding planning experience. I didn't. I had years of planning events and parties, but not weddings. It wasn't because I had a stunning portfolio of guys, I had one wedding. I was just starting. Therefore, there was no stunning portfolio. It was because the credentials opened up doors that would have otherwise taken me years to access. After I became certified, I spent that full year intentionally hitting the pavement. I reached out to venues, I asked for tours, I introduced myself, I showed up consistently and followed through on every single thing I said I would do. And what I learned very quickly was that certification changed the conversation before the conversation even started. When I reached out to a venue and introduced myself as a certified wedding planner, I wasn't just another person claiming to be a planner. I was someone who had committed to a professional standard. Someone who had been trained in best practices, contracts, timelines, vendor coordination, and risk management. I was someone who took this seriously. And that mattered, gosh, it mattered so much. Venue coordinators responded to my emails. They made the time to meet with me. They invited me to tour their spaces, even though I haven't planned any weddings there yet. Because the certification gave them enough confidence to take a chance on me earlier in the relationship than they might have otherwise. You know, I remember one venue sales manager telling me very casually that we don't get a lot of certified planners in the area. It's really refreshing. And what she didn't say, but what I understood was it made me less of a risk. And made me someone that she could feel good about recommending to her couples. Now, let's be honest about what it's like to build a business when you're new. Again, you don't have a portfolio full of those beautiful weddings. You don't have years of vendor relationships to lean on. You don't have a long list of five-star reviews. You're starting from scratch. And you're trying to convince people to trust you when they have no evidence yet that you can deliver. And that's really hard. But here's what certification did for me and what I know it can do for you. It gave venues and vendors a reason to trust me before they had evidence. It shortened the distance between the who are you and the we would love to work with you. Because when I walked into a venue for the first time, I wasn't walking in empty-handed. I was walking in with a credential that said, I know what I'm doing. I've been trained by an organization that holds its planners to a measurable standard, and I understand how to work with you in a way that protects your reputation and makes your job easier. And that changed everything. Then you started adding me to their preferred vendor list. And it wasn't because I'd worked there a dozen times, I hadn't yet. But it was because the certification gave them the confidence that I would represent them well, I would show up prepared, and that I wouldn't create chaos or put them in difficult positions with their clients. The vendors I reached out to, photographers, florists, caterers, they all responded differently as well. They didn't see me as someone who was too green to be taken seriously. They saw me as someone who was building a business the right way, someone who valued professionalism and education, someone they could refer to their own clients with confidence. And I want to be fully transparent here, guys. I have never paid for advertising. Not once. My business grew entirely through relationships and referrals, specifically with venues and those trusted vendor partners. And those relationships started because certification gave me access to rooms that I might not have been invited into otherwise. So let's talk about why that does happen. Why do credentials open up doors, especially when you're new? Because venues are very protective of their reputation. And guys, they have to be. A wedding that goes poorly at their location doesn't just affect the planner, it affects them. It affects their reviews, their referrals, and their future bookings. So when they work with the planner, especially a planner that they don't have a long history with, they need to know that that person understands what they're doing. And certification signals that. It tells them, okay, this person has clearly been trained in the best practices. They understand timelines, contracts, liability, vendor coordination, and they're also committed to learning this profession in the right way. And that matters a lot because when you're new, guys, think about it. You don't have a track record yet. Those credentials become your track record. It becomes the evidence that you're serious, that you're prepared, and that you're not going to create any problems for them. And the same is true for your vendors. They want to work with planners who make their lives easier, not harder. Planners who respect timelines, communicate clearly, understand the flow of a wedding day, and know how each vendor's role fits into that flow. Again, when I became certified before I'd even fully planned that first wedding, vendors didn't dismiss me as someone who was too inexperienced, but they saw someone who had done the work to prepare. Someone who wasn't just going to wing it, someone who understood that this is a profession. And because of that, they wanted to work with me. They recommended me and they made space for me in their networks. Now, that first year after certification, I was relentless and not in a pushy way, but in a consistent and intentional way. I introduced myself to every venue I wanted to work with. I toured spaces. I sent follow-up emails. I showed up when I said I would. I did exactly what I said I would do every single time. And I applied everything I learned through the CWP Society about the importance of professional relationships, how to communicate with respect, how to position yourself as a partner, how to show venues and vendors that you're there to make their jobs easier, not harder. I wasn't trying to convince anyone that I was the most experienced planner they'd ever met, but I was showing them that I was someone that they could trust, someone who took this seriously, and someone who had invested in learning how to do things the right way. And those relationships became the foundation of everything. They led to referrals. They led to couples who came to me already trusting me because someone they trusted recommended me. They led to a business that was sustainable, respected, and built on something rock solid. Within one year of earning my certification, guys, like I mentioned, I was able to leave my full-time banking career and pursue wedding planning full-time. That wasn't luck. That was the direct result of how certification positioned me in the industry and gave me access to the relationships I needed to build a thriving business. Now, so far we've talked a lot about new planners since that was kind of my journey starting off new, but I do want to address something that I hear often. And it's from those experienced planners. Well, they say, But Chris, I have experience. Why do I need a credential to validate what I already know? And I understand that question. But here's what I have learned. Even with experience, you're still facing the same challenge that I faced when I was just starting out. You're asking people to trust you. And trust requires evidence. Now, if you have years of experience but no credential, you're relying entirely on your portfolio, your reviews, your word of mouth reputation, and those things are valuable, absolutely. But a credential validates that experience. It gives people tangible evidence of how you approach your work before you even have to approve it. It signals that you've committed to a professional standard, that you take this seriously enough to meet a measurable benchmark. It confirms what your experience has already taught you, and it makes that visible to everyone you work with. And another surprise here from that that I hear from my experienced planners who gain their certification is that certification can also show you the gaps. Even with years of experience, you discover things that maybe you realize you were missing, better systems, smarter approaches, and ways to make your business even stronger. You know, sometimes it's not about what you're doing wrong, but it's about what you could be doing better. Plus, you gain access to a community of planners who actually get it. People who understand the challenges you're facing because they're navigating them too. And that support and the collective knowledge, guys, that's invaluable. So if you're listening to this and you're wondering whether certification is worth it, whether it's worth your time, the investment, the effort, let me ask you this. How much faster could you build the business you want if the doors opened a little easier? How many fewer emails would go unreturned if venue saw you as someone who met a professional standard? How much more confident would you feel walking into a venue for the first time if you knew that you were being seen as trained and a credentialed professional? Certification isn't about ego. It's not about being better than anyone else. It's about positioning. It's about giving the industry a reason to trust you before they've even worked with you. It's about showing that you take your profession seriously and that you expect to be taken seriously in return. You know, I have been recognized nationally and been named wedding planner of the year, been featured in Marcus Dura Weddings and was named one of the top wedding planners to follow by Marcus Dura weddings. And I can tell you with absolute certainty, none of that would have happened the way it did, or as quickly as it did without the foundation that certification provides. Because credentials don't just open doors, they change the timeline. They change how fast you can build, they change how quickly you can go from now who are you to we trust you. I think about those early days a lot. Walking into venues with just that one sweet little wedding on the books, and a certification that told them I was serious, watching doors open that could have easily stayed closed, building relationships that became the foundation of a business that I am deeply proud of. It wasn't magic, it wasn't luck. It was the result of a decision that I made to invest how I was seen. Not just by my clients, but by the people I needed to work alongside in order to serve those clients well. If you're ready to be taken seriously as the professional that you already are or that you hope to be, certification through the CWP Society is your next step. Not someday, not when you have more experience or more weddings under your belt. Now. Because the doors that open for me, the relationships, the referrals, the respect, they're waiting for you too. But only if you're willing to make the investment in yourself and your business. The industry is looking for professionals who take this seriously. Show them that you're one of them. Visit cwpssociety.com and take the next step. Your business and your future will thank you.

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